Monday, 29 July 2019

Letting Go of Books


Possibly the hardest thing for me to sort through and let go of has been my collection of books.  But finally last year something clicked and I started to drastically reduce the number that I owned.

Of this little 'Aga' collection on the top shelf in the kitchen for instance, I had just three that I actually used regularly but I had hung onto them all for ages.  Now that I have checked through them I have kept just those three and will pass these on to the next owners of the house and the Aga ... and the rest all went straight into the car boot sale box without a second thought.

It's like I've been 'cured'.


Last year we sold the dictionaries and books to the left of this photo ... this year all the 'bee' books have gone into the box ready for the car boot sale.

So NO books are now left in the office.


When we first moved into this house we brought with us this long low shelf unit, an ex-display shelf from my little shop in Ulverston.  It housed a lot of books after one of my many blogged about sort outs.

This year the shelf unit is out in the garage full of car stuff and the bits and bobs that were lying around everywhere as it is no longer needed in the house.  Because after a few big sort throughs and a number of car boot sales last year, we no longer needed it for books as what we had left ...


... moved into the gaps I had made on this set of fitted shelves behind the door of the living room.

This year there has been a further click ... and not just one!!

  Firstly, getting rid of books was suddenly much more preferable than holding onto them.  I went with the flow and sorted out whenever the mood overtook me.


This morning the shelves look like this.


The second 'click' of realisation was that I no longer had the need to own everything written by a particular writer or chef.  

For years whenever my favourite cooks ... Nigella Lawson, Nigel Slater or Jamie Oliver ... brought a new book out I rushed out to to the shops to buy it, gaps in my collection were filled in from charity shops and car boot sales and then suddenly I realised that I didn't need to own them all as I wasn't actually even using them.


I sold most of the older ones last year and then this year I have been letting go of the newer ones after checking first that there was nothing in them that I actually wanted to cook.  In one book the only recipe that I used regularly was this Green Spaghetti recipe, I was about to photograph it for future use and then I realised... I use it that often I know it off by heart anyway.

The book was in the car boot sale box at the weekend.


The bottom shelf of this set of shelves now looks like this, just one Jamie Oliver book ... the one I use!!


The other shelves we have, also originally from my little shop, were filled to capacity too.


With even the cupboard being full up with magazines that I had held onto after reading.


It currently looks like this ... and the cupboard is empty!! 

And shock, horror ... I have just decided that once we move into our little flat this will be the main bookcase.  Apart from some books in our office and perhaps a few cookbooks in the tiny kitchen, this will be expected to hold the whole collection.  

I better keep whittling away at the books then.


The kitchen collection after my recent sort out currently looks like this, which I think is a very manageable number to have and use.

What do you find the hardest things to part with?


Sue xx









38 comments:

  1. That point you make about feeling the need to collect everything by a particular author rings true for me. I've reduced my library by about 90% over the last ten years. However, I think that the need to have complete collections of anything for the collection's sake is something which can creep up and advertisers play on the tendency.

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    1. Funnily enough it's something my Dad used to do, collect all the works of a particular author that is, and my brother does it too. And now my son seems to be doing the same, but his books are all crime novels and mine are mostly cook books.

      Maybe there's a book collectors gene!!

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  2. From 1,400 books in 2013, I'm down to maybe under 500.(must have a count up) I have to decide about my WWII Home Front collection........that's difficult

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    1. Wow Sue, you've done well. I bet Ziffit love you ;-)

      Yes, I still have my WW2 books especially all the ration ones ... I think most of them can go though.

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  3. I have been quite good lately although I didn’t usually buy too many. I now photo and type/print recipes into a book or folder.

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    1. I think I'm finally on the road to NOT buying books just for the sake of 'wanting' them anymore. I do have to fight the impulse though!!

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  4. I had started to reduce my book collection when our local supermarket started a charity book shelf. There is a book shelf near the checkouts where you can leave books or take books and leave a small donation in the charity box. It's very popular and of course you have to have a look every time you're in the store and as its my nearest store I'm in at least once a week. To be fair I do drop some books off when I finish them but I've picked up a whole lot more than I've dropped off to date!

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    1. Our Tesco started doing that last year, it began with a small table and has now built up to a four shelf bookcase. Although I do look almost every time I'm in, I have only ever bought one book and after reading it I sold it at a car boot sale for the price I paid. I will be taking a few books to leave on the table next time I'm there.

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  5. It's books with me too Sue. I've done it....reduced to about 5% of what I had a couple of months ago. Like Marksgran I dropped a big box of womens fiction in to Sainsbugs and they had all gone by the following week, hopefully raising £1 each for charity. I know I will buy more in the future but we will be closer to a library at the new house so I intend to borrow rather than buy ;) Well done on being ruthless!

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    1. Borrowing rather than buying is the best thing isn't it. I need to see if I'm allowed to join the library that's near the caravan. Perhaps I won't be able to as we don't pay Council Tax there ... but it's worth asking.

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  6. Hi Sue I am doing exactly the same at the moment, I haven't got to the cookery ones yet which I know are going to be the hardest for me, and yes I know what you mean about celeb chefs I am just the same, so I am going to be realistic and sensible about it. You are doing so well, so inspiring. x

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    1. It seems most of us are real books lovers :-)

      Yes, cookery ones are the hardest ones to let go. I was going to give myself a number to get down to, but I think it will be simply what I can fit comfortably into the brown bookcase/cupboard and a row of cookery books for the kitchens ... oh and maybe a couple of bedside books too. You can't have a bare bedside table now can you ;-)

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  7. I've spent the last couple of years going through my book collection. All the cook books went first as like you, the recipes I actually use, I know by heart now. Then all my work books went, took retirement in Jan 2017 so not needed, all my study books over the years went too. Just left my fiction. I started re-reading and found that for a lot, they weren't worth a re-read so they went off to Ziffit. Now am left with about 30 books that I absolutely love and know I will re-read every so often. Now two friends and I liaise over which books we want to buy and once read, we swap them between us before deciding if anyone wants to keep them. If not, they go in the Ziffit pile and once we've got enough, off they go and the money goes into our 'girlie days out' pot. I want experiences in my life now, not stuff. Savannah.

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    1. What a brilliant way to get new books, share them with friends and then sell on and use the money for even more fun. That is just perfect in every way :-)

      I think 30 books is a good number, perhaps a little bit TOO low for me but a good number.

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  8. Books certainly. We have been slowly de-cluttering for about a year now, quite a few books had gone, down to one bookcase full in the lounge and some on the shelves in the bedroom. We were doing very well until my Mum decided to de-clutter too and have passed on a lot of my late Father's to me. There are no fiction and almost all of them have little pencil scribblings to do with his research and I can't part with them so we are now back to where we started ! I used to collect tiny cups and saucers and have had some beautiful ones but no room now and oh! the dusting ! so am keeping just one that my son bought me when he was 10 ,now 40. Kitchen cupboards and wardrobes are done, they were easy, no sentiment there. The dogs are safe and husband, as long as he behaves,everything else is on borrowed time :)

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    1. Haha ... I'm glad your hubby and the dogs are safe from your new found ruthlessness :-)

      When my Dad died my son took all his books as they were very much on the same wavelength when it came to reading matter, he's read through most of them, letting go those which weren't completely his cup of tea and he's kept a small concise collection of the authors that both he and his Granddad loved.

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  9. Books, without a doubt. We have thousands - truly, bookcases in every room - this probably dates from my family not being able to afford to buy books when I was a child - I just had a collection of the Observers books (starting with wild flowers when I was 6). I had to rely on the library for reading matter and I am an avid reader - back of sauce bottles if sufficiently desperate.

    We are going to downsize, so I know I need to reduce hugely, and have had various culls. Novels are the easiest, though I have kept all my Phil Rickmans, Diana Gabaldons, Barbara Erskines. My countryside collection is going to stay more or less as is, though I may pass on the Dorset ones as my Dorset days are such a long way in the past now. I did a cull of the Literary bookcase this past week, and also a brief cull of archaeology/history books which went to Malvern Flea yesterday, where we sold a few. I have had a brief cull of the cookery books, ones of ancient recipes (mostly Victorian or earlier) taken out. I am a sucker for anything with "Country" or "Farmhouse" in the title. I have never been one for collecting every book from a celebrity chef - I think Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall is the only person whose books I have most of, and that's because he was on the same wavelength as me, to begin with.

    However, although we know that probably 9/10th of our large pieces of furniture will have to go when we downsize, I have recently taken a few items out of stock to keep. Nice things, original things, which speak to me but not to customers . . . I guess they have my name on them! I've never been one to get rid just for the sake of it - a home, after all, reflects the interests and personality of the people living in it and we have a lot of interests and things imbued with memories.

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    1. Yes I agree, novels are the easiest to let go.

      I still have virtually all of Hugh's books, well most of them are signed so they are hard to let go, but saying that the ones that are predominately meat may not make it through the next round of culling!!

      Do you find you put higher prices on 'stock' that you actually would love for yourself ... I always used to when I had my shops. Then it was a bit like compensation if I did have to let it go to a buyer.

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    2. Higher prices on stock I love . . . probably yes! I guess they are pre-destined to stay with me!! There are a few which are fairly unique though, and I know we would never find their like again. That said, I just LOVE matching customers with their dream item and it's so good when they see something and their eyes go like flying saucers and you know it will go home with them - a perfect match.

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    3. Yes, it's very special when you make someone's day, week, year with a special item that you just know will be loved. ❤

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  10. I wish something would click with me. I just cannot part with books and have far too many.. one day the click will hit me

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    1. It really is best to wait for it to happen naturally. I have donated so many books to charity shops or sold them at car boot sales, then regretted it and bought them back. Not this time ... I simply do not have a need to own them.

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  11. Books are the toughest for me - I've got another pile ready to go just from his past weekend's cull - but - the bookcases are still full! I do try to share the wealth a bit more now - my church does one or two book sales a year and I always give them a pile. The social club that I belong to always has a table at the monthly meeting where we can drop off and pick up anything we fancy - try not to pick up anything and a couple of friends and I have started each buying one particular author and then we do a swap. I have also started using the library a lot more but this is still the one area where it's very difficult.

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    1. It seems we really are all on the same wavelength here ... book fiends :-)

      Lovely that you can donate to the church book sales though, it's easier to let them go when it's for a good cause isn't it.

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  12. I did this to my books when I moved here eighteen months ago. Now I have had to buy another bookcase as I can't help adding to them.

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    1. I can see I'm going to have to be strict with myself if I'm not to do that too. It's hard NOT to buy books when they either first come out and have brilliant reviews or are a snip at a charity shop or stall. But I'm going to try!

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  13. Like yourself, books are the hardest thing for me to declutter. When the basement flooded a few years back I did manage to rid myself of a great many. However I still have lots and cringe every time I glance at them. I will however be back to whittling them down one of these days. Those things are very heavy to move!!!!

    God bless.

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    1. If they make you cringe every time you look at them, that could be a sign you're almost ready to let some of them go ... they should make you smile!

      Mine suddenly started to look oppressive rather than pleasing on the bookcase, that's when I started whittling away at them. Now even with messy gaps they make me happier again 😃

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  14. Like clothes I have a rule, one in one out. Books are do heavy when you're moving and I now buy the majority mine at charity shops and that's were they go whennim finished. There isn't much you can't find online.

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    1. Yes, there was a lot of weight in the truck when we moved all our boxes of books to the Welsh home. It's going to be much better next time.

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  15. Books would be among my hardest, I NEED the Cure you've received! I have culled the massive Collection of Decor Books I am obsessed with collecting, but I have a long ways to go before Cured! I have more than any Retail Book Store in Phoenix, which is the 5th largest City in the U.S., so that's rather obsessive when I thought deeply upon that fact! *Winks* Being an incurable Collector I have cycles of Collecting too much of particular things, only when I'm truly Over them can I Let Go and donate or sell them off.

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    1. If only I could bottle the cure ... I would be a rich woman 🤣🤣

      I used to love pouring over interior style and design books. My favourites were by Rachel Ashwell, but one day I just stopped and realised they were just big picture books that weighed a ton and could be borrowed instead from the library if I felt the urge to look at them again ... so off they went.

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  16. Ahhh, ridding myself of books. That will indeed be a tricky venture! Books are a comfort to me, but then - clutter is NOT a comfort! I'm trying to slowly whittle down my collection.

    And Sue, I had meant to tell you a while ago that I included your new blog (this one!) in my list of Top 10 Frugal Blogs. I have always been a big fan of your writing, and your perspective on things. Thank you for all you do. (The post is available for you to see at: https://bargainblog.ca/10-best-frugal-living-blogs/).

    Have a wonderful day,
    Christina

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    1. It is a fine line isn't it between comfort and clutter. Hopefully now I'm on this decluttering journey I can find a comfortable line to stop at. Not for me the stark white 'I own 5 books' mentality, I would much rather have a bookcase full of favourites that I can go back to to re-read or pick out information from.

      Ooh, thank you for including me, I'll come over and have a look at the others on the list 😃

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  17. The most difficult thing is making a start, first things to go were decorating mags and books, next fiction read but not likely to be read again, then pre vegetarian cookbooks after that I just kept picking through everything.
    I started a hand written recipe book for favourites,anything else I look up online .Fiction etc. I get from the library ( they transfer or buy in any that I require) and if there is something I might keep I trawl the many charity shops.
    One day it does just click that you don't Have to own books.....the library stores them for you or can get them.

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    1. It sounds as though you followed a similar path to me. First the home decor 'picture books', then fiction, which I find quite easy to part with, then meaty books ... and in my case then the vegetarian books, which are so heavy on milk, cheese and eggs usually. Purely vegan books are a delight to cook from, virtually no changes needed.

      Yes, once we think of libraries being big storerooms that hold the lovely booky clutter for us, it gets much easier.

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  18. It would definitely be books for me. I buy magazines, read them and pass them on to a neighbour. Novels (mainly from charity shops) are read and either passed on to my mum or put in another charity bag. But cookery books are another matter! Like you I have collections, but I must pull up my big girls pants and be brace. Some of them I read but don't cook from! What is the point?
    One collection that will not be diminishing however, is my WW2 collection.

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  19. So, so many books, I could open a store! I wish we had a Ziffit equivalent here. I do give to a charity book store that chooses a different charity to give to every week and nobody gets paid, it's all volunteers. I have started to declutter as I am tired of having 10 gallons in a 5 gallon pail. I got rid of 8 large garbage bags of my clothes a couple of weeks ago. Disgusting when I think about it. Now I can actually get into the closet I found lots of nice clothes that I hadn't worn for a long time!! Books are definitely my downfall though-probably about 1200 of them. I think I am ready to get rid of some of them.

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